I coach Emotional Intelligence with business leaders, managers and their staff in London. I specialise in mindfulness/awareness techniques to better enable my clients to decide for themselves what to think moment by moment, the choices they make & the lives they lead.
“I do not like that man, I must get to know him better” Abraham Lincoln (attributed) Serious disagreement and disaffection between colleagues in the workplace is a huge drain on businesses which can ill afford distractions. Strife and the stress and unhappiness that come with it can affect productivity, cause absenteeism and increase staff […]
As a coach I have to be able to listen – this may sound all very obvious, right? But there’s listening and then there’s ACTIVE listening. This is a skill that is not only fundamental for any coach, but it is also an essential skill for any meaningful interaction be it in our lives at […]
“The bird of paradise alights only on the hand that does not grasp” John Berry A source of frustration or worry and anxiety I often come across in my work as a coach originates when people feel they are not in control. How often do we hear (or even utter ourselves) the words: ‘I like […]
After one of my recent public speaking events a member of the audience gave me some feedback – which incidentally is always welcome – how else can I adjust my sights? The point he raised actually goes to the core of coaching, and the quest of personal development in general: “I thought you were going […]
Offering patience as a possible option in fashioning new life strategies can meet with short shrift – and that’s putting it mildly. Patience is often regarded as ‘off the pace’: a waste of time when we should be out there ‘making things happen’. Patience is seen by many as too ‘wait and see’, or being […]
‘God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference.’* Reinhold Niebuhr, 20th Century American Theologian Whether working with business executives or groups, in order to create momentum towards positive and lasting change, there is a crucial ingredient […]
In modern life we prize having multiple options and choices, but one of the greatest limitations to achieving these are our own thoughts and perceptions. Therefore, an ability to challenge and shift our own perspectives, and therefore our perceptions, is a huge asset – especially if we occupy a leadership role. “We don’t see things as […]
Most entrepreneurs will be all too aware of the pressures that go hand in glove with being self-employed. The pressure not only to succeed but also to be seen to be successful, is inherent within the very fabric of our society. WHEN SUCCESS CAN FAIL We are taught to want to ‘succeed’ from a […]
‘Our doubts are traitors, and make us lose the good we oft might win, by fearing to attempt’ WILLIAM SHAKESPEARE Fear of failure is, more often than not, the fear of not measuring up to others in our peer group. It can also be a fear of falling short of what we believe to […]
Belief is the key to all work related to changing life strategies regardless of whether someone is setting such plans for their home life or their business.The belief referred is not that associated with faith, but instead is concerned as it applies to facts, to our reality and to objective judgment. So what it is […]
